HOW TO AVOID ADULTERY IN YOUR MARRIAGE AND MAKE IT INTO THE KINGDOM OF GOD

Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it. Carelessness is one of the major cause of affair in marriage not devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error.

So follow these 21 simple rules and you will never fall into adultery error again.

1. Never make anybody of the opposite sex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.

2. Never be with anybody of opposite sex at the time your spouse must never know you are there.

3. Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence of anybody,they will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you fake care and give you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy you.

4. Be proud to use your wedding ring outside,let them know you are married and proud to be.

5. Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife/ husband you visited.

6. Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse, AFFAIR thrive in secrecy.

7. Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite sex, there should be somebody of your sex you can talk to,don't dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.

8. Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from opposite sex. They will ask for sex in return they are not Father Christmas.

9. Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife you don't know what their spouses are enduring at home,what you are seeing outside is just a show biz don't be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.

10. Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.

11. Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body,your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other,it is only faces that are different it is the same package.

12. Deal with any sexual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse,kill it before it kill you. Sexual error do not begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.

13. If you are finding it difficult to deal with it,find a mature christian you can confide in and let the person pray with you,counsel you. Don't die in silence.

14. Before traveling have sex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have sex until you come back,that decision may safe your life and destiny

15. Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and imagine what is there,it is stupid, childish and dirty to do that,that is what is called lust,what is there is not different from what your spouse has,please don't be stupid sir.

16. Walk in company with good and Godly men/ women if you keep company with adulterer you will become adulterous.

17. Discus your sexual desire with your spouse and let it be met at home,don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow,your wife/ husband has the best,get it at home.

17. Fill your heart with the word of God always,this will not give lust a chance in your mind.

18. Memorize and Always remember Proverbs 6:32-33. "But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul. A wound and dishonour shall he get; and his reproach shall not be wiped away".

20. Always count the cost of adultery, don't just look at the pleasure,look at the pain,loss of integrity,how you will hurt your wife/husband ,children,friends and above all GOD the almighty.

21. Always remember that the enjoyment,pleasure and the thrills that is in sex is just 8 seconds or less,it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trading eternity for 8 seconds,is there wisdom in that?

->"BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID"<-

Remember that It is only SIN that has power to land any man or woman into HELL. Therefore let us pay more attention to our ETERNITY as we have only little time to spend on planet earth because we will live an endless life either in HEAVEN or HELL. So you need to choose well.

Brethren, if you are still living in SIN then you need Jesus Christ in your life who can secure your salvation today because tomorrow may be too late. So if you are ready to accept him into your life and want to be saved from Hell fire (i.e. A place originally prepared for Satan and his falling angels who are known as demons) then say this simple prayers below.

"I come to you Lord Jesus. I know I am a sinner. Please forgive me all my sins. I repent and renounce them all. I accept you today as my Lord and my Savior. Wash me with the Blood You shed for me on the Cross of Calvary. Write my name in the book of life. Thank You Lord Jesus. In Jesus name I pray. Amen".

Join a bible believing church where they worship the Lord Jesus Christ IN TRUTH and IN SPIRIT and their preaching focuses on SALVATION, RIGHTEOUSNESS and HOLINESS of God because God is a spirit and he is HOLY, therefore without Holiness no one can please God. Please avoid churches where they worship materials things of this world (e.g. "where the pastor glorify and honor members with big cars, big tithe payment members than honoring God Almighty")....Run away from such church, they will lead you to hell.

Please read your bible everyday and maintain this new life in Christ Jesus till death or till the second coming of Jesus Christ and it will be certain that you will be among the qualified candidate of the Kingdom of God and you will certainly reign with Christ Jesus at the end of time.

PLEASE Share this with all your friends and family on social media today to win a soul for Jesus Christ today.

THE SEX I WILL NEVER FORGET......Righteous Please Flee From Fornication while You Can.

I can say; that was the best sex I have ever had. We did everything in foreplay and the actual sex was not in this realm. Waves of orgasm swept over her body and my very self felt highly satisfied. As I stood up from her and was putting on my boxer, something strange happened that has never happened in all my sexual adventure.

Right there in the room, like in a trance, I saw an image like my self walked out of my body. I was so scared as the image bowed his head and was walking backward to the door. I screamed, I shouted, I was shivering seriously. My girlfriend stood up and was asking me what is wrong with me..She shouted that I should keep quiet, but, No! I kept shouting as I saw like myself walking away from me.

To my surprise, I kept on telling my girl friend to look at this image and she said, she could not see anything. I became terrified. It was like I was in the oven, at the same time, it was as if I was in a cold room. I watched the image walked backward to the door and when it got to the door, it turned to go out of the door, as I watched the back of this image, I saw an inscription written on it "EXCELLENT SPIRIT".

I screamed and shouted because, though I am not a serious Christian, but I know what it means to have an excellent spirit and to lose it. I have been leading the whole department in my school the University. Lecturers consult me privately to explain some hard topics. I was a genius. It is this brilliance and handsomeness that made me the desire of most ladies on campus.

While I was crying and weeping bitterly, my girlfriend busted into serious laughter. I was asking her why the laughter, and she said; "You are Number 5. I will get the remaining 5 to make it 10". I asked her to explain what she meant, she just laughed harder. She carried her bag and walked out of my room and said; "Enjoy your shadow".

Till today, I can't trace this lady. I have tried looking for her, I can't find her. Right from that day, I knew I became empty. I have the best result in my department, but no destiny results to show for it, sir. I lost something that day, I knew I lost it. I have been praying and asking the Lord Jesus for restoration. At times, I feel like I am so empty. I wished that sex never happened or never happened between me and that lady. I lost the excellent spirit God gave to me! 

This was a confession of a guy to me some months ago. He wept bitterly in my office. I could not comfort him. He graduated as the best student in his department but if you see him at that time, you will never believe he went to school because his destiny has been destroyed.

Dear precious one, there is something deep about sex. I know some will read this and ignore it. Believe it or not, you only know yourself but you don't know 2 out of 10 about the person you want to have that sex with. 

Flee fornication!....Flee adultery because only one round of sex is enough to round off your God giving glorious destiny.
 
****Enjoy sex with your spouse only after marriage!****

You singles ladies and Guys, please wait! You will not die waiting for Mr or Mrs right that will be your life partner. 

Please before you remove your under wears for that guy/lady to commit Sin of fornication, think and think again because SEX is one of the tools used by the devil and his  demons to capture most especially youth soul to hell fire, read more about it from this link "MARINE SPIRIT TAKEN OVER THE CHURCH OF GOD" so I beg you in the name of God to please control your sex org in-order not to ruin your God giving destiny if you are still single.

This message goes to the youths (i.e. most especially University Student around the world today) who has seen Sex as a mean of enjoyment while they are still single rather than to wait and had it with their spouse after marriage. I want you to read another topic on this blog which sound a warning of sex without marriage with a single lady, please click this link to read "DIS-VIRGINITY OF A LADY WITHOUT MARRIAGE".

Do we have anyone out there who has lost his or her own 'excellent spirit' or some thing greater and precious to their life just because of 10 minutes of sexual pleasure which is counted as a great SIN in front of God Almighty?  

If yes, my brothers and sisters you need Jesus Christ in your life whom I believed can restore your lost glory back to you. Therefore are you ready to accept Jesus Christ into your life today and be saved from the Hell fire?

Then.... say this simple prayers "I come to you Lord Jesus. I know I am a sinner. Please forgive me all my sins. I repent of them all. I renounce them. Write my name in the book of life. Wash me with the Blood You shed for me on the Cross of Calvary. Thank You Lord. In Jesus name I pray. Amen".

Join a bible believing church where they worship the Lord Jesus Christ IN TRUTH and IN SPIRIT and their preaching focuses on SALVATION, RIGHTEOUSNESS and HOLINESS of God because God is a spirit and he is HOLY and without Holiness no one can please God.

Please read your bible everyday and maintain this new life in Christ Jesus till death or till the second coming of Jesus Christ and it will be certain that you will be among the qualified candidate of the Kingdom of God and you will reign with Christ at the end of time.

Please don't just read these but make sure that you share with everyone on your social media platform. By doing this, you're as well doing a great work of evangelism which is the heart beat of God.

God bless you as you do.

EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS – HOW & WHY IT KILLS MANY MARRIAGES TODAY

Please note that you can avoid adultery, it is within your power to do it, if you really mean it, carelessness is one of the major cause of affair in marriage, not devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into it.

So follow the simple rules below and you will never fall into adultery ever and your marriage will be saved.

All credit goes to Almighty God who inspired Pastor Bisi Adewale to come up with is write up. It was reformatted by Alo S. Blogger for all qualified candidate of the Kingdom of God to read, understand, practice and share with others in-order to save a lot of marriages in the world today.

Please SHARE this until it gets to all married couples; you may be saving a soul or may be a family or a country for the Kingdom of God.

May God bless you as you share this.